Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Our Traveling Table


About six years ago, my husband, Alex, and I started talking about what we wanted to do when the time came for him to retire from the Army. I think we were missing the early days of our relationship when our time was completely our own. We traveled. We climbed and skied. We had a great time.

Then Alex and I stumbled onto our house, and tripped and fell into parenthood. Fortunately we have been blessed with two wonderful kids who seem to be patiently teaching us about how to be parents. Over the years we’ve weathered time apart, with Alex far away for long periods of time, either for climbing or work, sometimes both. We made it through a 15 month deployment and its aftermath. But one thing we’ve been able to establish, despite all our missteps as parents and time apart, is a routine of sitting down together at our family table.

So we’ve decided to take our family table on the road. We are celebrating the end of 26 years of military service for Alex. We’re also trying to buy back a little bit of lost time together as a family. And to be honest, we’re just doing it because we can. We figured out a way to make it work and we’re indulging in a little adventure, a little wanderlust.

Our original idea of roadschooling our kids for a year after Army retirement has been whittled down to four months, a time frame which seems more doable considering jobs waiting for us at home and our modest savings. So we feel like it’s time to take some time for us again and indulge a little bit as a family.

Our plan is to have no plan. We have a rough itinerary based on a general direction. First we’re headed south down the east coast to Florida, then to the Southwest before it gets too hot. I imagine we’ll head north towards Washington then make our way back to VT by the end of July. We’d love to hear from you if you’ve been somewhere or seen something in your own travels that you found particularly interesting.


11 comments:

  1. Love the new wheels for the mobile family table. What an incredible experience for everyone! Looking forward to your updates and wishing you a glorious time.
    xoxo

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  2. I just bookmarked y'all! Enjoy the ride.

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  3. So happy for all of you!!! This sounds like an amazing opportunity!! You must keep us all posted along the way!! When are you headed out?

    Cyndi Osgood

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  4. Love it. Truly.
    My email didn't tell me this was here (yet?) but facebook did.

    Piton says hi. :P

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  5. If you can come through Nashville, we'd love to have you.... Lots of Civil War sights and great music!
    Kim

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  6. As you head down the coast, a stop in Charleston, SC is a must. "Oh say can you see..." You want to have a meal at the Hominy Grill 207 Rudedge Ave. (843) 937-0930. Southern fare. Shrimp & brown gravy, fried chicken with collard greens, mashed potatoes, fried green tomatoes (out of this world by the way), BLT, buttermilk pie (like Caroline's chess pie). Breakfast. Lunch, Dinner Call for hours. YUMMMMMMM

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  7. Have fun guys...if you get near Milwaukee, theres lots to see here and you can have a couple of real rooms and real beds to sleep in for awhile too! EAA (experimental aircraft assoc fly-in) is first week of August!

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  8. If you go to Savannah and you really should. It's a great city.
    Everyone will love a trip to Fort Pulaski which is about 5 miles outside the city on the way to the ocean. The fort is surrounded by a moat and you have to cross a drawbridge to enter it. it is a National Park and fully restored. The kids and parents will enjoy the walk around the ramparts.

    Next not to mill is Mrs. Wilkes Dining Room for a lunch. It serves southern food family style with ten people to a table. So you get to know your neighbors and the kids will have some southern fried chicken.

    Also go to Wormsloe State Historic Site to see a long avenue covered over with live oak trees. it's right out of Gone With the Wind.

    When I was there with Zac andTim we went to a minor league ball game at the Grayson Stadium which is over 100 years old. Babe Ruth played there.

    Also on the way to Disney World stop in St. Augustine the oldest city in the United States. There is a great Spanish fort there which is also a National Park site. The kids should see atleast two forts on their trip. You can also walk down the old spanish street which starts near the fort.

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  9. What an amazing opportunity! Have fun!

    Jason says if you make it to Florida by April 29th there is a shuttle launch.

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